無憂保職場指南早報:很多人寧愿生活在痛苦之中,也不愿意解決自己的問題。(波特.海寧格 – 家庭系統(tǒng)排列大師)
Many people prefer living in pain than to have their problems solved。 恐懼使你不敢面對它;而不能面對它,正是你的恐懼的來源。 Your fear prevents you from facing it,And yet not facing it is the cause of your fear. 壓力來自感覺自己的能力比事情所需要的小。 Pressure comes from feeling that ones strength is less than what the task requlres. 困難]是以為得到的比需要你付出的少。 Difficulty comes from thinking the gain is less than the cost. 軟弱的感覺,來自把注意力放在自己不能控制的東西。 The feeling of weakness comes from focusing on things that we cannot control. 每個人都想有更好的明天。就算自殺的人都想有更好的明天,只不過他以為那不能在這個世界找到而己。 Evenybody wants to have a betten tomorrow,even a suicidal person,only that he does not believe it can be achieved in this world. 智慧就是去接受,當(dāng)你能夠接受世界上的一切,你便有最大的智慧。 Wisdom is to aceept.When you can accept everything that happens in the world,you will have supreme wisdom. 想去擁有的,只應(yīng)是使自己積極、奮斗、努力、啟發(fā)的東西;而不應(yīng)是使自己埋怨、失望、孤立、懊悔的東西。 Things we want to have should only be those that motivate, invigorate,stimulate and enlighten us;and ot those that make us blame ,despair ,disconnect and regret. 你會先檢查袋里有多少錢才決定進(jìn)入那一間飯店。只有未長大的孩子才吃了再算,因他們總有父母代為結(jié)帳。由此可見:長期的經(jīng)濟(jì)問題和不負(fù)責(zé)任的行為,其實就是在心里上仍是孩童的表現(xiàn)。 You would check the money inside your pocket before choosing the restaurant for your dinner.Only children would eat before they check,because the can always cou-nt on their parents to pay for them.From this we may understand: cronic Personal financial problems or irresponsible behaviors are just indications of having not grown up as adults. 想任何事情有好的改變,有一條最有效的方程式,只要三個步驟: 1.相信事情有改變的可能, 2.找出一個與以前不同的做法,展開行動, 3.不斷修正做法,直到效果出現(xiàn)為止。 最難是第一步。很多人都希望而又不相信有可能。 For anything to change for betten,thene is a veny effective formula,consisting of only three steps: 1. believe that change is possible, 2. find a way different from those tried before,and stantdoing it, 3. keep adjusting whatyou do until you seethe nesults you want. Step One is most difficult.Many people want the change but do not believe it to be possible. 不負(fù)責(zé)任、過份要求、不付出而要求收取、想控制別人、既抱怨而要別人代勞等,這應(yīng)放下,因為它妨礙我們成長的同時,拿走人生里該有的成功快樂。全國十三五規(guī)劃明確全民參保計劃,將在2020年前基本實現(xiàn)。全民參保是政策指向也是新的市場空間,無憂保堅定信念承擔(dān)起企業(yè)的社會責(zé)任,努力做國家全民參保計劃的踐行者。 小編有話說:謝謝這么優(yōu)秀的你來看文章,有什么想對小編說的盡管來吧,大家的支持就是我們的動力,歡迎大家踴躍發(fā)表疑問,歡迎吐槽,社保生態(tài)圈群:248069515
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