無憂保職場指南早報：How to View Competition該如何看待競爭

今日導(dǎo)讀：古往今來，弱肉強(qiáng)食。英語中會用predatory來形容competition。競爭是每個人都無法避免的生存空間，但如同塵埃，如同病菌;競爭;的正確解讀，是心理學(xué)中的重要一課。難度指導(dǎo)：

Competition is one of those things that when left unchecked, can quickly spiral out of control. When it does, it messes with the fragile human ego, breeds jealousy, envy, contempt toward others, and makes you ill at ease with yourself so we must be careful in terms of how we view it.

Competition first and foremost, obviously weeds out the many to show who is strong in a certain given area but the one important fact thats so often forgotten with regard to this process is simply this:

That a person cant be good at everything.

Some people are naturally more athletic than others, more creative, have the ability to retain knowledge more easily than others, etc. Competition puts those strengths in plain view.

But the key here is not to be so hard on yourself in terms of becoming sad at the fact that you cant be good at everything but in finding out what YOU are good at and what really matters to you.

When you find what those things are, then you can start to make competition work for you.

Probably the greatest thing about competition with regard to areas in which you show considerable aptitude and interest is the fact that it keeps you on your toes. It acts as a very good catalyst to counter complacency.

Without feeding off the energy that comes from competition, theres no drive to push forward. Its easy to keep on doing things the same way as before. Businesses that make the grave mistake of thinking they have no competition will find themselves at a loss when their market share evaporates to the small companies nipping at their heels.

You shouldnt be spending too much time focusing on the competition but rather on making yourself better by using the energy that comes from it.

Compete with yourself based on the criteria you choose to set. If you choose to compete with the criteria that others set, youll always lose because youre playing by somebody elses rules.

Play by your own.

spiral vt. 旋轉(zhuǎn)foremostadv. 首先，最重要地weed out 鏟除雜草；去除

keep someone on their toes讓某人繼續(xù)全身心投入做某事

catalyst n. 催化劑nip v. 捏，咬

競爭這種東西如果不加以適當(dāng)?shù)囊种?那么就會很快失去控制。一旦它逃出了你的控制范圍，會讓你迷失脆弱的自我，催生出嫉妒，和蔑視他人的情緒，使你頃刻難安，所以就如何看待競爭這個問題來說，我們一定要慎重。

競爭最首要的是淘汰掉大多數(shù)人，在一個特定領(lǐng)域告訴世人誰是最強(qiáng)的，這很明顯，但是在這個過程中一個重要的，卻常被忘卻的因素是：

人并非事事都在行。

有些人天生比別人多些運(yùn)動細(xì)胞，多富于創(chuàng)造性，或?qū)W習(xí)知識的能力更強(qiáng)等等。競爭使得這些優(yōu)勢更為簡單明了。

這個問題的關(guān)鍵不是因為你不能事事精通就自怨自艾，對自己苛刻，而是找出你的強(qiáng)項和對你真正重要的東西。

當(dāng)你找到了這些，你也可以開始為自己尋找屬于你的競技場。

或許競爭所帶來最大好處就是在你有相當(dāng)資歷和興趣的領(lǐng)域中，讓你仍舊保持一份戰(zhàn)斗力。這種競爭是避免自滿的有效催化劑。

要是沒有競爭帶來的能量，我們也就沒了前進(jìn)的動力。像以前那樣不變地做一件事很容易。認(rèn)為市場中沒有競爭這樣嚴(yán)重的錯誤將使他們面臨損失，當(dāng)市場份額被緊隨其后的小公司占據(jù)的時候。

你不應(yīng)該花太多時間在競爭本身上，而應(yīng)在如何利用好競爭動力這方面多下功夫。

依照你選定的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)與自己競爭。如果你選擇他人的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)參與競爭，你將總會遭受失敗，因為你在按別人的游戲規(guī)則比賽。

按你自己的意愿行事。

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